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The Secret Powers of Marital Relationship: Agapic Love, Transformative Power of Suffering and Satisfaction with Sacrifice

Yıl 2019, Cilt: 7 Sayı: Eğitim & Psikoloji, 65 - 77, 03.12.2019
https://doi.org/10.18506/anemon.506296

Öz

The first aim of this study was to explore which
kind of sacrifice behaviours are performed in marital relationship and whether
or not they differentiate into gender. The second was to examine the relationship
between satisfaction with sacrifice and agapic love, and the mediating effect
of transformative power of suffering on this relationship. Data were collected
from 318 married individuals. The findings based on the first aim of this study
revealed that sacrifice behaviours were grouped under two themes, daily
sacrifices (such as errands, communication and interaction) and major
sacrifices (such as changing job and home city). The findings based on the
second aim of this study showed that there were positive relationships between
agapic love, transformative power of suffering, and satisfaction with
sacrifice. Also, it was found that agapic love directly and indirectly (through
the mediating effect of transformative power of suffering) predicted satisfaction
with sacrifice.

Kaynakça

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  • Aron, A., Aron, E. N., Tudor ve M. Nelson, G. (1991). Close relationships as including other in the self. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60(2), 241-253.
  • Aron, A., Mashek, D. J. ve Aron, E. N. (2004). Closeness as including other in the self. D. J. Mashek ve A. Aron (Ed.), Handbook of closeness and intimacy (s. 27-42) içinde. Manwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates Inc.
  • Aydoğan, D. ve Özbay, Y. (2018). Evlilikte fedakârlık doyumunun ilişkisel özgünlük ve evlilik doyumu bağlamında değerlendirilmesi. Uluslararası Türkçe Edebiyat Kültür Eğitim Dergisi, 7(2), 1276-1290.
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  • Bar-Tal, D. (1976). Prosocial behavior. Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing Corporation.
  • Baron, R. M. ve Kenny, D. A. (1986). The moderator-mediator variable distinction in social psychological research: Conceptual, strategic, and statistical considerations. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 51(6), 1173-1182.
  • Batson, D., Bolen, M. H., Cross, J. A. ve Neuringer-Benefiel, H. E. (1986). Where is the altruism in the altruistic personality? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50(1), 212-220.
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  • Büyükşahin, A. ve Hovardaoğlu, S. (2004). Çiftlerin aşka ı̇lişkin tutumlarının Lee’nin çok boyutlu aşk biçimleri kapsamında ı̇ncelenmesi. Türk Psikoloji Dergisi, 19(54), 59-72.
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  • Creswell, C. (2017). Eğitim araştırmaları: Nicel ve nitel araştırmanın planlanması, yürütülmesi ve değerlendirilmesi (H. Ekşi, Çev. Ed.). İstanbul: EDAM Yayınları.
  • Day, L. C. ve Impett, E. A. (2017). Giving when it costs: How inter-dependent self-construal shapes willingness to sacrifice and satisfaction with sacrifice in romantic relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 35(5), 722-742.
  • Dinçer, D. (2017). Romantik ilişkilerde ilişki doyumunu ve yaşam doyumunu yordayan etmenler: İki Boyutlu İlişkisel Benlik Değişimi Modeli (Yayımlanmamış Doktora Tezi). Marmara Üniversitesi, İstanbul.
  • Dinçer, D. (2018). Power of suffering. D. A. Leeming, (Ed.), Encyclopedia of Psychology & Religion içinde. Berlin, Heidelberg: Springer. Doi: https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-642-27771-9_200188-1
  • Dinçer, D., Ekşi, H. ve Aron, A. (2018). Two new scales in the field of couples and marriage counseling: The inclusion of other in the self scale and Turkish self-change in romantic relationships scale. SHS Web of Confereces, 48, 1-7.
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Evlilik İlişkisinin Gizil Güçleri: Özgecil Aşk, Acının Dönüştürücü Gücü ve Fedakârlık Doyumu

Yıl 2019, Cilt: 7 Sayı: Eğitim & Psikoloji, 65 - 77, 03.12.2019
https://doi.org/10.18506/anemon.506296

Öz

Bu çalışmanın ilk amacı, evlilik ilişkisinde ne tür fedakârlık
davranışları sergilendiğini ve bu davranışların cinsiyete göre farklılık gösterip
göstermediğini keşfetmektir. İkinci amacı ise evlilik ilişkisinde sergilenen
fedakârlık davranışlarından alınan doyum ile özgecil aşk arasındaki ilişkiyi ve
bu ilişkide acının dönüştürücü gücünün aracı etkisini incelemektir. Araştırmada
318 evli katılımcıdan veri toplanmıştır. Elde edilen sonuçlar, fedakârlık
davranışlarının gündelik fedakârlıklar (örneğin günlük işler, iletişim ve
etkileşim) ve büyük fedakârlıklar (örneğin işini ve yerleşim yerini değiştirme
gibi) olmak üzere iki tema altında gruplandığını göstermiştir. İkinci amaç
doğrultusunda elde edilen sonuçlar özgecil aşk, acının dönüştürücü gücü ve
fedakârlık doyumu arasında pozitif yönde anlamlı ilişkiler olduğunu ortaya
koymuştur. Ayrıca özgecil aşkın, fedakârlık doyumunu doğrudan ve dolaylı olarak
(acının dönüştürücü gücü aracılığıyla) yordadığı saptanmıştır.

Kaynakça

  • Aron, A., Aron, E. N. ve Smollan, D. (1992). Inclusion of Other in the Self Scale and the structure of interpersonal closeness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(4), 596-612.
  • Aron, A., Aron, E. N., Tudor ve M. Nelson, G. (1991). Close relationships as including other in the self. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60(2), 241-253.
  • Aron, A., Mashek, D. J. ve Aron, E. N. (2004). Closeness as including other in the self. D. J. Mashek ve A. Aron (Ed.), Handbook of closeness and intimacy (s. 27-42) içinde. Manwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates Inc.
  • Aydoğan, D. ve Özbay, Y. (2018). Evlilikte fedakârlık doyumunun ilişkisel özgünlük ve evlilik doyumu bağlamında değerlendirilmesi. Uluslararası Türkçe Edebiyat Kültür Eğitim Dergisi, 7(2), 1276-1290.
  • Bahr, D. B. ve Bahr, K. S. (2001). Families and self-sacrifice: Alternative models and meanings for family theory. Social Forces, 79(4), 1231-1258.
  • Bar-Tal, D. (1976). Prosocial behavior. Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing Corporation.
  • Baron, R. M. ve Kenny, D. A. (1986). The moderator-mediator variable distinction in social psychological research: Conceptual, strategic, and statistical considerations. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 51(6), 1173-1182.
  • Batson, D., Bolen, M. H., Cross, J. A. ve Neuringer-Benefiel, H. E. (1986). Where is the altruism in the altruistic personality? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50(1), 212-220.
  • Bilgin, R. (2016). Geleneksel ve modern toplumda kadın bedeni ve cinselliği. Fırat Üniversitesi Sosyal Bilimler Dergisi, 26(1), 219-243.
  • Büyükşahin, A. ve Hovardaoğlu, S. (2004). Çiftlerin aşka ı̇lişkin tutumlarının Lee’nin çok boyutlu aşk biçimleri kapsamında ı̇ncelenmesi. Türk Psikoloji Dergisi, 19(54), 59-72.
  • Clark M. S. ve Mills, J. (1979). Interpersonal attraction in exchange and communal relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 37(1), 12-24.
  • Creswell, C. (2017). Eğitim araştırmaları: Nicel ve nitel araştırmanın planlanması, yürütülmesi ve değerlendirilmesi (H. Ekşi, Çev. Ed.). İstanbul: EDAM Yayınları.
  • Day, L. C. ve Impett, E. A. (2017). Giving when it costs: How inter-dependent self-construal shapes willingness to sacrifice and satisfaction with sacrifice in romantic relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 35(5), 722-742.
  • Dinçer, D. (2017). Romantik ilişkilerde ilişki doyumunu ve yaşam doyumunu yordayan etmenler: İki Boyutlu İlişkisel Benlik Değişimi Modeli (Yayımlanmamış Doktora Tezi). Marmara Üniversitesi, İstanbul.
  • Dinçer, D. (2018). Power of suffering. D. A. Leeming, (Ed.), Encyclopedia of Psychology & Religion içinde. Berlin, Heidelberg: Springer. Doi: https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-642-27771-9_200188-1
  • Dinçer, D., Ekşi, H. ve Aron, A. (2018). Two new scales in the field of couples and marriage counseling: The inclusion of other in the self scale and Turkish self-change in romantic relationships scale. SHS Web of Confereces, 48, 1-7.
  • Dinçer, D., Ekşi, H., Demirci, I. ve Kardaş, S., (2015), Acının Dönüştürücü Gücü Ölçeği: Geçerlik ve Güvenirlik Çalışması. The Journal of Academic Social Science Studies, 39, 409-421.
  • Dion, K. L. ve Dion, K. K. (1996). Cultural perspectives on romantic love. Personal Relationships, 3(1), 5-17.
  • Eagly, A. H. ve Wood, W. (1999). The origins of sex differences in human behavior: Evolved dispositions versus social roles. American Psychologist, 54(6), 408-423.
  • Edgar, D. ve Glezer, H. (1994). Family and intimacy: Family careers and the reconstruction of private life. International Social Science Journal, 46(1), 117-139.
  • Ekşi, H., Dinçer, D. ve Akalp, C. (2017, Nisan). The relationships of parental rearing behaviors, fear of happiness, and transformative power of suffering. 8th World Conference on Psychology, Counseling, and Guidance, Antalya, Türkiye’de sunulan bildiri. Özet https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B2ALYHsCTIQ3ZGo5UHgxSmZvNmM/view adresinden alındı.
  • Erikson, E. H. (1982/2014). İnsanın 8 evresi. İstanbul: OkuyanUs Yayıncılık.
  • Ewart, C. K., Taylor, C. B., Kraemer, H. C. ve Agras, W. S. (1991). High blood pressure and marital discord: Not being nasty matters more than being nice. Health Psychology, 10(3), 155-163.
  • Fehr, B. ve Russell, J. A. (1991). A concept of love viewed from a prototype perspective. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60(3), 425-438.
  • Fincham, F. D. ve Beach, S. R. (1999). Marital conflict: Implications for working with couples. Annual Review of Psychology, 50(1), 47-77.
  • Gable, S. L. ve Reis, H. T. (2001). Appetitive and aversive social interaction. J. Harvey ve A. Wenzel (Ed.), Close romantic relationships: Maintenance and enhancement (s. 169–194) içinde. Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum.
  • Gilligan, C. (2017). Kadının farklı sesi: Psikolojik kuram ve kadının gelişimi (Dinçer, M. Elma ve F. Arısan, Çev.). İstanbul: Pinhan Yayıncılık.
  • Günindi-Ersöz, A. (2015). Özel alan/kamusal alan dikotomisi: Kadınlığın “doğası” ve kamusal alandan dışlanmışlığı. Sosyoloji Araştırmaları Dergisi, 18(1), 80-102.
  • Hatfield, E. ve Sprecher, S. (1986) Measuring passionate love in intimate relationships. Journal of Adolescence, 9(4), 383-410.
  • Hendrick, C. ve Hendrick, S. S. (1986). A theory and method of love. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50(2), 392-402.
  • Hendrick, S. S. ve Hendrick, C. (1987). Love and sex attitudes and religious beliefs. Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, 5(3), 391-398.
  • Hendrick, C. ve Hendrick, S. S. (1990). A relationship-specific version of The Love Attitudes Scale. Journal of Social Behavior & Personality, 5(4), 239-254.
  • Hendrick, C., Hendrick, S. S. ve Dicke, A. (1998). The Love Attitudes Scale: Short form. Journal of Personal and Social Relationships, 15(2), 147-159.
  • Hill, R. P. (2002). Compassionate love, agape, and altruism: A new framework for understanding and supporting impowerished consumers. Journal of Macromarketing, 22(1), 19-31.
  • Impett, E. A., Gable, S. L. ve Peplau, L. A. (2005). Giving up and giving in: The costs and benefits of daily sacrifice in intimate relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 89(3), 327–344.
  • Impett, E. A. ve Gordon, A. (2008). For the good of others: Toward a positive psychology of sacrifice. S. J. Lopez (Ed.), Positive psychology: Exploring the best in people (s. 79-100) içinde. Westport, CT: Greenwood Publishing.
  • Jack, D. C. (1991). Silencing the self: Women and depression. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.
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Toplam 81 adet kaynakça vardır.

Ayrıntılar

Birincil Dil Türkçe
Bölüm Araştırma Makalesi
Yazarlar

Duygu Dinçer 0000-0003-2496-6902

Didem Aydoğan 0000-0002-7163-3003

Yayımlanma Tarihi 3 Aralık 2019
Kabul Tarihi 27 Mayıs 2019
Yayımlandığı Sayı Yıl 2019 Cilt: 7 Sayı: Eğitim & Psikoloji

Kaynak Göster

APA Dinçer, D., & Aydoğan, D. (2019). Evlilik İlişkisinin Gizil Güçleri: Özgecil Aşk, Acının Dönüştürücü Gücü ve Fedakârlık Doyumu. Anemon Muş Alparslan Üniversitesi Sosyal Bilimler Dergisi, 7, 65-77. https://doi.org/10.18506/anemon.506296

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